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God Knows The Desires Of My Heart

Lovely mom Pep with Seth & Psalm

Lovely mom Pep with Seth & Psalm

(Editor’s note: Pep, a stay-at-home mom and a mother of two beautiful kids, is an online English teacher.  She’s one of the tough moms I personally know.  This woman has a very strong personality which I personally believe will bring her to a very bright future with her family.  She’s one person I have never had a chance to get to know more than 29 years ago until we bumped into each other again ’online’ last year.  Now, I consider her one of my dearest friends and will always keep her in my life and close to my heart no matter how far we are from each other.  Read her story.)




Indeed, God truly knows the desires of my heart. When I was in still in College taking up a course in Hotel and Restaurant Management, I’ve always admired some teachers of mine who were very articulate in the English language. Secretly, I wished to teach someday – I imagined being good at English as I really wanted to be fluent like them. I told no one about this dream. Not even my best friend or my parents. And guess what?! I am presently a tutor in English.

When I got married and became a mother of two girls, I had to give up the hectic schedules in the restaurants where I used to work. I’ve decided to focus my time and energy to my being a mother. Happily at the same time, I was hooked in my church as a volunteer in the Sunday school.

After a few years, my angels started schooling. I was eager to work again. So, I tried working in Call Centers. The trainings I had were fantastic! But sadly, I became stressed with the working condition– handling irate calls, dealing with graveyard schedules and difficulty sleeping during daytime. So I opted to apply elsewhere as an English tutor.

I’m now working home based as an English tutor online and also teaching one to one basis in a prominent village in Alabang, Muntinlupa City, Philippines. I have no doubt ever since I started in this job that this is a good and perfect gift from God. I have never experienced this kind of balance in my life with my past jobs. It’s the only job I know that allows me to spend more time with my family.

Editor’s note:  Ms. Pepper Canedo can be contacted via teacher_pepp@hotmail.com or you can catch her in Skype where she conduct her tutorial classes.  Her Skype ID is pepperken1431.

A Group of Moms Is Coming To LMC Soon!!!

I am so excited to share this new development here in Lovely Moms Cafe. 

 

There are moms from different countries who are coming here to share their lives, experiences, views, parenting tips, pieces of advice in career, family, relationships and a lot more.  Our aim is to reach out to all lovely moms around the world and make this place more useful, enjoyable and fun for all of us.  You will see their articles, stories, photos all over Lovely Moms Cafe! 

 

Meet all these lovely moms from around the world…have fun with them, laugh with them, cry with them, learn with them… I can’t wait to see them all here.

Unspoiling A Child Begins With Parents

It is a common fear of most parents that their kids might grow up spoiled.  Much more so if the kids are being left in the care of grandparents whom we all know can hardly say no to their grandkids.  Well, this is the normal situation…kids get spoiled by grand parents and get disciplined by parents.  Not so good, but this happens most of the times.

 

The first symptom of a child getting spoiled is when he started sprawling on the floor, crying and screaming, when he doesn’t get what he wants.  This is the child’s way of controlling the situation and getting that power to manipulate the parents.  So the main issue here is ‘power’.  Unspoiling a child with already an attitude like this does not happen overnight though.  Consistency is needed in the way the parents handle the situation and disciplining the child.

 

No matter how much though your child has become spoiled, there is always a possibility to discipline and raise your child the way you want.  This will all depend on the child’s age, openness to change, and your consistency during the process.

 

It is very important, at all times, to let the child know that there are house rules he need to adhere to.  Parents should also explain well to the child that breaking the rules will result to a consequence.  Rules may cover the following areas of discipline:  When and how long a child can watch the television;  what time should the child should eat meal; what time does the child need to do homework; when is the time to reward the child or buy a toy for good behaviour and for accomplishing something; what time is bedtime, etc.

 

In disciplining your child and imposing houserules, success will depend on how consistent you are as parents.  It is worthy to mention too that being a model to our kids play an important factor in rearing a well disciplined child.

She Breastfeeds Her Dad…

I have read this news article in Yahoo news and I was amazed on how good breastmilk really is.  We all know that breastmilk is best for babies.  But how about for adults?  Read on and find some interesting facts based on the true story of this young mom and his father who is battling cancer.

NEWS:  As Georgia Browne breastfeeds her baby son Monty, nothing could seem more normal or natural. At eight months old, Monty thrives on his mother’s milk, but someone else is also thriving on Georgia’s milk – her father Tim!

 

That’s because Tim’s battling cancer. He drinks his daughter’s breastmilk every day to boost his immune system and give him the strength to fight the disease.

 

After researching the idea on the internet, Georgia, 27, expresses her breastmilk as often as she can for her father to drink. He has the milk on his bowl of cornflakes every morning. It’s been his daily routine for the past six months and Tim believes the milk has given him a boost.


‘It was a terrible shock. He’d never been ill before,’ Georgia says. ‘He still is really fit. He goes to the gym three times a week.’ Tim endured gruelling chemotherapy and after a year went into remission. But the cancer returned when Georgia was pregnant with her first child.

Life-saving milk
Georgia gave birth to Monty last July and began breastfeeding. A month later, she watched a TV documentary in which an American man believed his prostate cancer had been helped because he drank breastmilk.

 

‘The man went to a milk bank for his supply of breastmilk and drank it in a milkshake,’ Georgia recalls. ‘I started researching on the internet immediately and found separate studies in America and Scandinavia both supporting the health benefits of breastmilk to cancer sufferers.

 

‘I watched the documentary and thought it was a really mad idea, if it was true,’ she says. ‘I started looking on the net and found research suggesting breastmilk helps kill cancer cells.

 

‘Finding out I could help was amazing. I could play my small part in helping my dad do something positive for his illness. ‘When I talked to him about it, he thought it was a great idea. He thought: “Why not?”’

Georgia broached the subject with her family before going ahead. They all thought it was fantastic and supported her 100 per cent. ‘My mum thought it was great and my sisters and brother were supportive,’ she says.

 

With the family’s blessing, Georgia started expressing her milk for Tim straight away. She dropped the first batch round to her parents’ home in a freezer bag, which her mum popped in the freezer.

 

Tim spoke to his doctors and nurses about drinking breastmilk and they were more than happy for him to try the unconventional treatment. ‘They told him that anything that could help was positive,’ Georgia explains. ‘They were very supportive and backed the idea.’

A month after starting the regimen, a scan of Tim’s cancer showed a slight, but distinct, improvement. Although doctors can’t say whether the breastmilk’s helped, Georgia says he’s brighter and has more energy.

 

She has promised to continue feeding Tim for as long as she can. ‘He has been having chemo as well as drinking the milk so there’s no way of really finding out if it is helping,’ Georgia explains. ‘I’m still feeding Monty so I feed him first, then I fill a bag for my dad. We’ll continue as long as I am breastfeeding. (-end-)

Isn’t that amazing?!  I have always believed that God gave this gift of natural milk from a mother’s breast to nourish babies and raise them to become strong and healthy individuals.  But we also are aware that breastmilk is a natural anti-biotic that protects our body by strengthening  our immune system.  It is really amazing how human body was intellectually designed by the Creator to the most advantageous benefit of humanity.

Multi-tasking Moms: Pros & Cons

Most stay-at-home moms are multi-taskers.  This statement is based on my personal experience seeing how my mom worked around the house and out when I was still a kid, as well as my experience now being a mother.

My day usually starts 10 minutes before 5am when I need to prepare breakfast for my husband.  I sometimes still take a short nap after he leaves, then wake up perhaps after 30 minutes to start working around the house.  I need to do as much as I can while kids are still asleep.

My son Alvin wakes up early at around 6:30-7:00.  Then, it’s time for me to stop whatever I am doing and get myself busy with him, prepare his breakfast, feed him, change his nappy, give him a wash and dress him up.  Once  Ivana wakes up a little bit later, I set her breakfast and leave her on the table where she finish brekky and clean the table all by herself after.  Then, I wash Ivana and dress her up as well.

While the kids are playing and/or watching early television programs, I am already busy preparing packed lunch for Alvin because he doesn’t sometimes eat the food in the daycare (kindie).  He loves my pastina with lots of parmiggiano cheese and a bit of butter.  I prepare the kids’ bags and then I bring them to kindie.

After I leave the kids at kindie, I go straight to Coles and buy whatever I need for dinner.  I also go to the bank, post office, do some mystery shopping assignments if I have one scheduled on that day, then go back home and do house chores.

Doing house chores is not just doing house chores really, but, doing house chores while my computer is on.  If I need to write a report about my mystery shopping assignment or write articles, then, I have to do that in between house chores.  Being at home and working online at the same time gives me a lot of stress especially when I have deadlines to meet and I can’t neglect the house.

Most of the times, what I do is, I set the alarm clock for one hour to doing house chores, then when the alarm gets off I work in my computer and set the alarm for half an hour.  When the alarm goes again I go back to my chores and set the alarm for one hour again.  This way I use my time alternately doing chores and work.  Besides, I feel that I make use of my time wisely this way…anyway, the work in the washing machine and clothes dryer, as well as the cooking in the oven, are still going even if I seat on my online work for half an hour.

Though this sounds stressful, it is the most effective way for me to multi-task and accomplish more within a day.  I am just not sure though if this will work for others.

Advantage:  Multi-tasking, if carried out with careful planning and time management will be very effective  in making sure that everything will be accomplished in due time.  This also allows a determined mom to accomplish more in a day and allot the remaining time of the day all for herself.  Accomplishing more makes us moms very productive and gives us feeling of fulfillment, enjoyment and happiness.

Disadvantage:  This can put a mom to a very stressful situation.  There are times when we need to multi-task due to too much load of work in a day.  Moms who are not used to it but need to do it may experience stress.  Stress can cause mom to get frustrated if the task doesn’t get finished in time, thus causing more negative feelings.

The best way, whether you are a multi-tasker or not, is to be wise in alloting and scheduling time to do specific tasks.  Nothing beats a well organized person.  Multi-tasking works for me and knowing that I can be a multi-tasking mom somehow makes me proud of myself…  Cheers to all moms!

Iceberg Lettuce & Sweet Corn Salad

I make this salad once in a blue moon; just to break away from my usual green salad with black balsamic and olive oil.  This lettuce and sweet corn salad is very tasty.  Warning:  you might get addicted to it that you would want to eat it every day.  Well, I did…every day for two weeks straight! Lol!

Preparation:  Shred or cut the lettuce leaves (not so fine, maybe half size of the way you normally cut them in your salad, so it’s smaller); combine it with the sweet corn kernels. Set aside in the fridge.

 

Before the meal, microwave enough amount of low-fat/low sodium butter until melted. This will serve as the dressing. Put the dressing while it is still warm. Mix salad with bacon crisps (fat drained).

 

Season the salad with salt as needed and ground black pepper.

It might not sound healthy but the choice of butter and draining fat from the bacon will make a big difference.

 

This is so simple and yummy.