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Give Me A Break…

It’s the start again of another month. I am really hoping that this will be a more productive month than last month.  It was unimaginable how my responsibilities as a mother to my kids and wife to my husband made me on my feet most hours of the day.  That includes running around the household to finish the never-ending chores.  Being outside the household makes no difference; it cannot be an escape.  My multi-tasking as a grocery-shopper, driver, post woman, bill payer and a lot more makes my time everyday flies.

I think I deserve a break.  But do moms really get a break?  Lucky are those who can afford to get helpers at home.  Oftentimes, I wonder why here in this beautiful country house helpers are not common unlike in the Philippines.  Back home it is affordable to get helpers and even personal drivers.  And now I am dreaming…wishful thinking.  But life now is different.  Things change…even the direction of lives we’re heading to.  I think few years back, when destiny brought me here, my life’s direction has completely changed.  A very active, responsible and extremely challenging life.

Perhaps, for now, a good mug of my favorite coffee with lots of cream will do me a favor of few minutes of break.

Freelance Broker – A Good Home-Based Job For SAHMs

Let me tell you first the main idea of the word “broker”.  Broker is one that act as an agent for others in negotiating contracts, purchases, sales and works for a certain fee.  I had no idea that I was already acting as a broker when I have been doing those aforementioned for few years now.

I work online as a writer but enjoy being a broker once in a while.  It began when my friends started offering me their real properties (as if I have millions to spend!) and I turned them down due to several reasons.  But since I was quite interested in the properties in terms of location, appearance, price and value,  I thought of offering the same to my other friends.  Some of those properties I even passed to my real estate agent-friends.

Remember that the idea here is to close a deal and earn a commission or referral fee.  If you have an agent who will do all the sales talks after you initiate it with a prospective client, you will be paid a ‘referral fee’.  If you are able to close the deal yourself, then, you get a commission from the seller.  I oftentimes do the first.  This is because I work, negotiate and refer ‘online’ – I cannot do more than that which will possibly make me earn huge commissions.  To work directly with the buyer/purchaser and assist in all the paper and legal works is something that interests me but just not viable as of this time.

I also have done referrals for interior designing and decorating (as well as car re-selling).  It is a good thing to have contacts with other professionals.  The potential of this job can be stretched by moms and be an option to earn while at home.

Stay At Home Moms

I have been a SAHM for four years now.  I should say that  being a SAHM kept me into thinking that motherhood is a fulltime job…although sometimes I think it is even more than that.

Twenty four hours in a day is not enough to accomplish everything that’s needed to be done at home, aside from the errands I need to run and do every single day.

If a fulltime job for others is an 8am to 5pm job, being a SAHM is 24 hours every single day. No day off.  No overtime pay.  No promotion. No resignation… How about that?

The only consolation we get as SAHM is to see our kids and husband happy and content healthy, and well taken care of.  It is very important though that SAHMs realize that it is impossible to create a family that is healthy, happy and content if the mother, which is the queen of the nest, is unhappy and unhealthy.  Taking good care of ourselves and taking time for ourselves alone is essential in creating a vibrant energy within us that will keep us going everyday in fulfilling our role as a SAHM.

Coming up:  For SAHMs: How To Pamper & Love Yourself